Hello Mike, I'm Monique
I am in need of some advise from a wise man that has such an amazing kind hearted soul. I have been following all of your words from your books and watched you in your love and poetry tour in Toronto. I'm totally a huge fan and I'm so touched how you've help me go through my issues in life. So for further more I need to ask how do I explain to a man that I've went out with for 4yrs that what he is doing is not good for neither of us. I found out he cheated and it took a couple of yrs for me to fully tell him goodbye. Its been over years now but we still haven't left each other site. He would pop up out of the blue and want to come see me but for the wrong reason . I know it's totally wrong but he doesn't seem to have no care in the world what he is doing. I've asked him about a girl he is "currently" with and he tells me "she's not my girlfriend." But I know for a fact they are together. How do I explain to him fully without no fights how to stop what we are doing and for him to come with the truth. Its such a long story with us and I don't hate him. I care for him but it's not the same anymore nor healthy for neither of us. I thank you for your time and hope to hear from you soon .
God Bless, with love
Hope all is well. Thank you for coming to my show in Toronto. I can not wait to come back. Look for me to be there with my new tour this summer.
Four years is a long time. It is even longer when the person you love doesn't love you like they are supposed to. If over the last four years, to best of your ability, you tried to convince, motivate, argue, and bargain with this man to love you accurately, and that has not been accomplished yet. I doubt it ever will. So I say, we are done talking. Your tried to make it work, you tried to talk it out. Its time your try leaving. And this doesn't have to be done loudly. You just have to find the courage, find the day, where you realize that any man that cant love you, must miss you. So from now, you have to let your absence do what your presence never did: Make people realize that there is a standard that must be lived up to if they desire to have someone like you in their life. So so since he cant appreciate Monique, he doesnt respect Monique, give him a taste of Missing Monique, and see what that does.
Best of Luck,